LOVE INSIGHT

WHY BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO
- by Pamela Fottrell 7/15/05

 

Pam Fottrell, Your Zodiac Cupid

Love itself, is not the culprit when a couple is having problems or is to the point of breaking up. Having been there and done that, I was able to weed through the nonsense which relationships gave me and now it's rare that anyone can take advantage of me or betray my emotions. I guess it's a matter of being on guard or holding back just a little bit until I knew for sure whether or not I was going to fully give the good things which were inside me. Lessons learned from the past are not always easy going down, but they are a fixed entity in your emotional and spiritual makeup for life after that. You also will find wisdom through this so that you'll be better prepared and equipped to decipher what this person in this life is bringing to the table. Unfortunately, when two people are just not made for each other, there is a tendency to move outside of the relationship as a way to remedy the mismatch, but it's usually the wrong method in which someone gets hurt.
A lack of mental compatibility, such as an aspect that may be found in your Love Match Report, can show the inability to be able to say what's on your mind, to put it simply. Then, these incompatible groups and themes have a way of getting larger in proportion until someone can't take it anymore and then the breakup begins.

Getting to the heart of the matter helps, and my Emailed Readings help to do just that for you. The next step is deciding what to do about it, taking action (or no action), and moving on with your life. I wish it was so easy to just do, but our hearts get in the way and sometimes get the best of us. But in the large scheme of things, being in a relationship which is really right for the both of you, and that for which millions of men and women are constantly seeking on a daily basis, can bring you so much more joy as well as greatly enhancing the quality of your lives. Maybe being a Leo, known as the "lover of the zodiac", I take these things really to heart, but I also believe that finding true love is no fairy tale and that it does happen. You just have to keep going until you get it right. "May all your relationships be happy ones!" Pam Fottrell
 


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