YOUR PAST LIVES for COUPLES REPORT
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About Your Couples Past Lives Report for Pam & Wayne
Welcome to your Past Life report. Whereas the birthchart is a symbolic road map describing your current life, the Past Lives chart is a blueprint of your previous incarnations. The pages that follow will help shed some light on themes related to your past life instincts. First, let's talk about reincarnation which is the belief that the current incarnation (as depicted by our birthchart) is linked to the lives that we have previously led. This collection of past influences points to particular experiences you might encounter again so that you can further your growth and fully develop your creative potential. These past impressions go far in shaping many of our current thoughts and choices. There are certain gifts a person seems to possess right out of the womb! It's as though destiny or fate leads one to realize these attributes. Of course, we still have to show ambition and make the effort in order to keep our dreams alive. This report may give confirmation to talents that you already know you have or open your eyes to ones that you have yet to discover.
Our past lives are alive and well in our consciousness. This may already be apparent to you. But on the other hand, these experiences can lie beyond the threshold of our conscious mind's awareness. What is doing the remembering, if our mind isn't? Call it your soul, higher consciousness or whatever explanation feels right to you.
Have you ever heard about karma, that great law of cause and effect? An old timeless saying sums up the whole process: "You reap what you sew." There are actions and thoughts that defined us in other lives, or have guided us to where we are in the present. They don't really exert any control over us. We have freedom of choice. That's a strong message to remember when reading this report.
Also, don't panic if you read something that says you were not a perfect person. Nobody is in the current one! Use the report as a learning tool. The idea is to keep developing and evolving. It's balancing the cosmic rhythm of past and present that presents each of us with a challenge. Do we respond positively or negatively? With hope or doubt? Many of our tendencies are linked to previous incarnations. Certain patterns have likely been by our side over many lifetimes. As we grow and expand our awareness, it becomes very possible to step beyond the trappings of past life baggage.
No doubt you will read various sections that seem to contradict each other. Each could be true about you. It's important to realize that many different dimensions of ourselves live within us. Each of us is composed of memories from so many past lives, combined with an assortment of ways we have learned to deal with reality in this life, that make us complex beings. See which descriptions ring true to you as you read through the following pages. You will notice some traits described have a repeating theme.
I hope you find this report an enjoyable ride into your past life instincts and thought patterns. They are somewhere in your consciousness. Perhaps some of what you read will strike a familiar chord. After all, these pages are all about your past life loves, creative pursuits, adventures, travels, highs and lows, over many lifetimes.
The Past Life Chart & Report for Couples: How is is done
Some technical explanations about the Past Life chart (if you detest technical discussions, then skip this paragraph and jump right into the report!). The Ascendant in this chart starts with the sign on the cusp of the 12th house, instead of the traditional method of using the sign on the 1st house cusp, which is the sign rising on the eastern horizon at the time of birth. Also, the Past Life birthchart houses are counted clockwise, rather than the conventional way of counterclockwise. In other words, since the 12th house becomes the Ascendant, the sign on the cusp of the 11th house now begins the 2nd house, etc., around the chart wheel. What is considered the Ascendant or 1st house in the traditional chart becomes the 12th in the Past Life chart. Your planets remain in the same sign placements, but now occupy different houses, in this new chart. The planets in signs are interpreted in your report from a past lives perspective.
Something interesting to consider in thinking of the houses in a clockwise direction, they are actually now moving in the same direction as the Nodes of the Moon. As you will read in the report the Moon's nodes are strong past life or karmic points in a chart. Their retrograde motion is clockwise meaning they share the same life biorhythms as the houses of the Past Life chart. By traveling backward, or clockwise, through the houses, you are being regressed back into a past life analysis. Enjoy your ride down memory filled lanes!
The Passport: What is your Potential Past Memory?
In this section are the first, middle and last names of your Past Lives astrological identity, the Sun, Moon, and Past Lives Ascendant. Each of these three building blocks will be discussed as to how they actively shaped many of your former lives. But before you meet these three key players, you will start your tour through memory lane with the North Node of the Moon. The North Node contains a special message about what was your overall life purpose. It was a constant rhythm pulsating in your consciousness to keep you on target toward your true purposes. It was a celestial compass trying to guide you to walk your talk with greater clarity. So sit back, and enjoy reading your past lives primer.
Node in Scorpio
You had a history of seeking empowering partnerships and the deepest levels of self-mastery possible. One of your key impulses was learning the art of negotiation. Your soul was normally in no hurry to reincarnate, knowing that life was a great process, and things unfolded in their own time. The archetypal theme for your destiny was to be an intensifier. A crucial lesson was not to rock the boat when it wasn't needed. Tuning into your true power kept you from overly indulging in this behavior.
You needed to express your forcefulness rather than give into the easy road. A trickster was settling for the surface appearance of things rather than delving deeper. It found you avoiding the tough choices. Getting lost in various sensual or physical appetites was your way of running from conflict. Finding a way to balance a need to express your emotional intensity with a grounded anchor to reality was important to your physical and psychological health. You sometimes stubbornly held onto what you valued or cherished. Exciting individuals and challenging experiences brought out your passion and deepest emotional outbursts. You needed to know you had the money and resources to accomplish your desired aims. Your will power snowballed when finding love and acceptance from others.
Node in 6th house
What types of activities did you participate in that furthered your soul growth? Pragmatic ideas paved the way for you to be attracted to learning new skills. You had an avid interest in diet and health. If you became too blindly devoted to causes lacking much reality it delayed your progress in finding your niche. A common concern was "how can I become more efficient in performing at what I like doing the best?" When you kept your expectations reasonable you managed to stay out of karma's way. What sorts of experiences motivated you? Getting an opportunity to put your know-how into practical use was a big one. When you found your true path, working extra hard to ensure success was an innate drive. Your energy levels peaked when you caught a glimpse of how to make your dreams come true. If you became ruled by divine discontent your ideals felt like they were merely lost in space. When you didn't try to be too perfect, this kept you on track as much as being too meticulous caused you to lose sight of the broader perspective. Somewhere, always hiding in the caverns of your memory banks were organizing instincts mixed with a tinge of powerful intuition. When using this wisely and faithfully, life was colored with a deep spiritual clarity, and you enjoyed putting great passion into a finely evolved imagination.
Your Sun Sign as a Couple: Personality, Creativity, Ego, Self-expression
Sun in Capricorn:
The sign of Capricorn, the goat, lighted the early-winter astrological skies at your birth into this life. Let's explore what significance this had in regard to your past lives. In traditional astrology the keyword phrase for Capricorn is "I build". You had a repeating pattern tied to ambition. Slowly and methodically putting together a plan for success was a regular theme. You were usually someone seeking the structure that allowed you to feel secure. Change wasn't really a welcome sight in past incarnations unless you were the one controlling it.
Archetypes for Capricorn include the leader, authority figure and self-reliant one. You normally attracted responsibility early in life. The sooner you realized that you couldn't always be in control, the happier you were.
The cosmic principle at work through many of your past incarnations was a reality oriented mind. This doesn't mean you never had a good time. You didn't trust possibility as much as the definite. Leadership roles influenced you to get good at managing your time. It was less stressful when you learned how to delegate. People tended to trust that you would do a job with conscientious effort. You found ego strength through gaining respect for the commitment you put into whatever roles you chose. Fear of failure was the greatest shadow. It held you back a time or two. You came into this life solarized through a sign promoting focus. This was a theme that ran throughout your incarnations and was a key to self-mastery. It was when you acted with flexibility and even a teaspoon of vulnerability that good fortune smiled upon you.
Sun in 4th house
You had solar power that was expressed with a lot of feeling in previous lives. Though it must be said you weren't always so quick to show your playing cards. An inclination to be secretive until really trusting that the time was right to reveal your true motives was a way of being. Your creative vitality became awakened when you saw ways to add to feelings of security. Home was godly in your opinion. You took pride in preserving the customs and beliefs that were heartfelt. Loyalty to family and ancestry was part of the package.
If there was a challenge, it was becoming too scared to show your true talent. A lack of confidence due to shyness or fear of failure was the source of this behavior. You did often outgrow being overly reserved. The hermit and silent one did live brightly through you. This isn't saying you were always a loner, only that you needed time to warm up to people. Your self-expression climbed the sky in a big way when you found the life directions that energized your inner dreams. Getting your moods in sync with your mind was a key to success. The world responded positively when you had the courage to initiate actions that were for the good of all, and not so graciously when you drew back into a reclusive shell. Getting beyond the negative memories of the past usually was a first step in the right direction. You found fulfillment in nurturing the growth of those you loved, and witnessing the birth of your most cherished plans.
Moon: Sense of Security, Roots, Feelings
Moon in Gemini:
You were lunarized at birth through the sign of Gemini. What does this say about your past life tendencies? An instinctual desire to learn followed you from one incarnation to another. The family ancestries in past lives were linked by insightful thinking.
Your inner landscapes were colored by quick mental impulses. Deep and questioning perceptions were a trait. A curiosity about life guided you to be an avid reader or student. A natural teaching ability you possessed. A nervous energy usually ran through your thought waves. Getting a handle on this tendency kept you centered. A restless mind that asked you to keep it busy and challenged was part of your history. Travel brought your imagination to the forefront. Your subconscious called to you to allow your mind to knock on the doors of paths that brought excitement and opportunity.
Moon in 11th house
You had intuitive power when it came to flying away from the flock toward unique horizons. Your pull to be different led you to go against the norm on many occasions. You instinctually knew how to proceed ahead with lightning speed. The exception being that when you became emotionally distraught you lost your compass points. Being an individualist didn't necessarily come easily, but you inwardly wanted to be so. You liked closeness as long as it didn't get too clingy. When you tried to hold onto those you loved too possessively they pulled away. When dependency needs were balanced, you were more content. You didn't mind feeling needed, but you pleaded for some breathing room! You were rebellious, and didn't like being bossed around.
Your moods were usually constrained behind an intellectual front. Though sudden changes in situations could send you on an emotional roller coaster ride. You liked new trends and experimental living situations. An inner feeling to try anything once, just for the experience, was a trait. You liked to reach out beyond comfort zones for stimulation. Being around progressive minded individuals was electrifying. Experiences needed to offer interesting options.
Ascendant: Persona, Identity, Calling Card
Pisces on Ascendant:
With the sign Pisces as your past lives Ascendant, a strong idealistic spirit colored your past incarnations. Your intuitive side ranged from being highly refined to being fogged by emotional confusion. You were at your best when listening to that inner voice that knew right from wrong, the truth from untruth. Guilt was a problem. It drove you to extreme escapism. You had a pattern of feeling things very personally. Extreme sensitivity produced great creative energies but did find you emotionally unpredictable. Knowing your boundaries was essential. The love you sought to find had to stay realistic. When you realized there were no perfect people, life became more relaxed and grounded. You wore many different masks. Finding the people that accepted you the way you were made you very happy. You gazed out at the world through rose-colored glasses, sometimes finding only fantasy, but at other times connecting with wonderful realities. A vivid imagination adorned many of your lives. You were attached to your ideals. At times they even caused you discontent. But in the end they defined you!
Mercury in Sagittarius
You were Mercurialized at birth through the sign of Sagittarius pointing to enthusiastic mental impulses in past lives. Your communication style was often blunt and to the point.
You did get into hot water by promising more than you could deliver. Decision-making wasn't that difficult, unless you were presented with too many options. You didn't like choosing, if it meant eliminating something you really wanted to do. Learning and education were tickets out of limiting circumstances. The traveler in you was instantly activated. Restlessness did make concentration a challenge. When you discovered the life directions that elevated you the most, your attention spans grew by leaps and bounds. Communication and travel played major roles in your work.
A broad philosophy about life served you better than when you became to narrow in focus. Two-faced individuals really bothered you, as you liked those speaking the truth. Writing was a talent in at least one life. Luck usually came in bunches when you needed it the most. Your mental outlook was brighter when you had enough interesting experiences on your plate and when you had more than one plan to inspire you.
Mercury in 4th house
Your perceptions moved reflectively, as though you were processing the past while analyzing the present. Deep emotions were often hid from others. You cautiously looked out at the world, concerned how to preserve your sense of well being. Your mind was intuitive and somewhat skeptical as to the motives of others. Family members were usually your closest allies, unless someone broke your trust. Hermit-like instincts flavored your thinking. You cherished privacy and were quite particular about where you lived. Your moods were intense and not revealed to just anyone. It was when you pulled back to the extreme from others that you became confused. Your mental power emanated from your level of inner comfort. Communication tended to be kept to a minimum unless you were extremely relaxed with someone. Social situations took a while for you to warm up to. You didn't like people invading your space. When you ran away from challenges they snowballed. You were better off in dealing with issues directly because this empowered your mind.
Venus: Love, Attractions, Past Relationships, Values, Comfort
Venus in Aquarius
With the love goddess adorning you through the sign of Aquarius at birth, you came from past lives where you were in search of independently minded lovers. Many people experienced you as symbolizing freedom and uniqueness. Your social instincts were colored with a hue of spontaneity and a fondness for shocking others.
The ideal soul mate was someone able to appreciate your unique insights and willing to treat you as an equal. You were attracted to lovers able to appreciate an element of surprise and to those with a way of exciting your mind. Your relationships sometimes began in unusual ways. Rebelling against restrictions imposed upon you occurred often throughout your past lives history. Working in cutting edge professions made you feel alive. You liked working among inventive minds. Leaving behind jobs that stifled your thinking was a pattern. You did need to watch a tendency to grow too sarcastic and aloof. You detested institutions that stood for hypocrisy. Leaving behind stable lifestyles to take a chance on a risky one was a constant temptation. Being different just to be different got you into trouble.
Your future goals kept you motivated. Your romantic fulfillment depended on finding a mate with a refreshing unconventional approach to life, and having a shared desire to walk a talk that allowed for a few broken rules.
Venus in 2nd house
You were poised when interacting socially, especially when confident with the company. You tended to be a stabilizing force in relationships, a levelheaded approach leading the way. Self-sufficient lovers attracted your attention, and your knack for being resourceful brought you to them.
Conflict in partnerships really bothered you. You did have a tendency to be too compromising in trying to please others. Some accused you of being stubborn, though you explained this as determination. Sensual types made you feel special, as did being in romantic atmospheres. Your peers found you reliable and grounded. You liked to save for a rainy day. When individuals generously shared their wealth with you, they occupied a special place in your heart. You valued peace of mind and comfort. It was the generosity of others toward you that made you feel valuable. Working with those you loved in a spirit of harmony meant a lot to you.
Mars: Assertion, Courage, Identity, Energy as Soul Mates
Mars in Sagittarius
What would a warrior planet in the fiery sign of Sagittarius mean regarding your past lives? You were a restless adventurer. Sitting still and waiting for life to happen to you wasn't your style. Fighting for your beliefs was a regular pattern. You liked to travel, even along unexplored territories. Finding those back trails made you excited. Your initiating impulse was accelerated when chasing your romanticized dreams. You needed idealism to keep fueling your drive. Taking risks that others feared to try did cause you various injuries and loss. A competitive streak developed when someone was trying to outsmart you.
Your identity was strengthened through incorporating the beliefs and knowledge of those living beyond your home territory. People found you to be an energizing force in inspiring them to be all they could be. Impatience did cause you to get easily angered. Those betraying your trust weren't always forgiven as honesty meant much to you. Learning to steer clear of hasty judgements did make you easier to tolerate. You didn't find sitting in a classroom as much fun as learning through exploring. Your concentration grew strong when your interest was captured. Religion and spirituality at times found you a devote practitioner. Though you sometimes let individuals know they were hypocrites when you thought them not practicing what they preached. When you moved with an acceptance for differences and with a clear vision of the future, life seemed more generous.
Mars in 5th house
You took the initiative when it came to showing the world what you were capable of doing. Your adrenaline got pumping through pursuing your creative dreams. A competitive side shot forth when you felt someone was trying to outshine you in a field of expertise. Fighting to defend that which you felt a sense of pride in was a repeating theme. What made you become territorial? When people infringed upon your freedom to express yourself. You became as loud as a lion in roaring for enough room to walk your own talk as you saw fit. With a warrior's passion you fought for what you believed to be in your best interest. Your ego did betray you sometimes, leading you into unnecessary skirmishes.
Impatience came when you wanted your own way as of yesterday. People liked you more when you maintained awareness of their needs as well. Taking risks wasn't always bad timing. As a matter of fact, in some lives you were adept at rushing wonderfully into ventures that panned out handsomely in your favor. Assertiveness was on automatic redial! You didn't have to reach far to be a straight shooter. If anything, you were asked to back off and let others make their own decisions. A forceful and passionate drive stirred others into action, either for or against you. Anger usually resulted when individuals either paid little attention to you, or tried to keep you from being all you could be.
Jupiter: What were your Philosophies as a Couple in the Past?
Knowledge, Expansion, Philosophy, Travel
Jupiter in Libra
Having Jupiter, the planet of good fortune, in the sign of Libra indicates you were excited by the people connections you made. You were a net-worker, whether living in a small medieval hamlet or a modern metropolis. Making up your mind was the biggest challenge. Knowledge was your ticket to a more promising tomorrow. You chose to expand your potential through a wide assortment of friends. A positive attitude guided you to meet the right individuals and to move into stimulating social circles. You sometimes tried too hard to please others, rather than pleasing yourself. Meeting lovers gave your creative expression a boost. When you perceived who was the right type of romantic partner, you experienced less disappointment. Your belief in others brought out their best. It was your overconfidence in some individuals that got you into trouble. Conflict bothered you, so you liked to resolve differences quickly. You were a strong believer in fairness and ethics. You felt luckier when you followed your own instincts toward the life paths that spoke to you for exploration. When maintaining a broad perspective you missed out on less of life's beauty and found the doors to opportunities ready to be opened.
Jupiter in 6th house
A positive and enterprising outlook influenced you to keep learning new skills. There was an expansive curiosity to try everything at least once. You sometimes lacked commitment and were a jack of all trades but master of none. However, when you truly found your life mission, you had a well-rounded background to pour into your favorite interests. Spontaneity made you more worry-free, instead of a worrywart. The roamer and dreamer needed plenty of imagination latitude. Travel relaxed your nerves. You liked jobs that let you explore. Being on the road was good for your psyche. You became a better organizer when not stuck in routines, because you were then less likely to rebel against a sense of order. If you adopted rigid life styles and narrow vision your options became limited. Luck smiled favorably upon you when you were less inclined to surrender to negativity for extended time periods. Good fortune came through a dedication to efficiency and paying attention to the little things.
Saturn in Sagittarius
Ambition came through you enthusiastically, says your past lives history, with Saturn placed in the adventurous sign of Sagittarius. Discipline was another matter. You didn't commit to anything that interfered with your freedom to roam the world in search of greater opportunities. Your greatest fear was being put into confining situations. Knowing where the exits were located was your first concern if you sniffed out a potentially frustrating path. There was a keen interest in education and religion.
A karmic shadow was self-doubt. Embracing a positive attitude made you more successful. You often defined yourself through communication and teaching-oriented professions, and as someone with great integrity.
Saturn in 5th house
What was your main focus? It was in finding your creative outlets. You had a determination to become disciplined in your favorite areas of self-expression. You consistently asked at crucial points during an incarnation: how can I develop self-confidence? Embracing your ego strength gave you a feeling of control. Rigidity connected to a fear of failure sometimes produced karmic woes. The antidote was greater flexibility in this area, that is, when you were determined not to repeat the same old lessons needing to be learned. Bossy tendencies were exhibited. You were more of a take control type, a few power struggles coming with the territory.
A shadow was stage fright, thinking you weren't adequately prepared for a challenge. This either caused you to under or over use power. Clear definition in how to maintain what you accomplished was preferred. Learning to sharing center stage made others like you. A major redefining occurred regularly during lifetimes, connected to how you used your time, which was a key to your staying young in spirit and physically healthy. Wisdom came through respecting the rights of others and adopting a greater sense of sharing.
Uranus: Individuality, Goals, Uniqueness, Freedom
Uranus in Leo
You had a tendency to react dramatically about future goals, which indicates Uranus in the sign Leo. Your mind did switch to fast forward when imagining how to express yourself creatively. People couldn't help but notice your ideas, as they often were communicated in a lively manner. You didn't excel in seeing how to include others in major decisions, but did do better with practice.
Inventiveness was a trait that made you proud of yourself. If others didn't openly show their appreciation for your original ideas, you did grow quite upset. You inspired people to make the most of their talents. Even lovers benefited from your ability to see where they may have had hidden ability. Maintaining a sense of direction made you feel that the world was your oyster and that surely the love and rewards you sought would find you.
Uranus in 8th house
In what way were you unconventional? You weren't exactly shy when it came to exploring the taboos or forbidden territory of your society. Relationships brought out your experimental side. You had futuristic vision in knowing the type of soul mate that would allow you to reinvent yourself. Your goals were sometimes kept secret, even from those you loved. A sense of direction was an essential ingredient to feeling fully empowered. It made you confused when not able to clarify what you wanted from life. Freedom regarding thinking as an individual was a great need. Financial independence was desired. You rebelled against those trying to hold you back or wanting to define your reality for you. Where was the main challenge? It was emotional explosions. There were times you detested stability and purposely caused friction. Power struggles with little interest in compromising led to trouble. Another area was if you gave up your power too easily. Equality was a must to keep the balance. You relished new horizons that were doorways to self-discovery and newfound passion. You were inventive in surviving a crisis.
Were You Spiritual, Intuitive, or Into Escapism as a Couple?
Neptune in Scorpio
You believed in ideals that spoke to the passion within you.
Your idealism was awakened through finding symbols that gave you a sense of rebirth. Crisis situations were the catalyst that made you use your intuition. The mystical forces of the universe often spoke to and through you. It was not unusual for you to go on silent retreats where you went into deep meditative experiences. Romance had its highs and lows. Balancing the extremes was important. You liked passionate relationships with a bit of mystery surrounding them. Though eventually you often looked for a comforting bond. A lack of trust caused you emotional upheavals. It was reassuring when you found a lover understanding your innermost needs.
A major challenge was addiction to love, sex, and other forms of escape. This isn't saying you always fell into these behaviors. When you found the clarity and strength to channel this intensity positively, life was more enjoyable. You wanted from the deepest part of your soul to create a life that reflected your self-mastery. You had strong dedication to those you loved and a determination to show the world your talents. You found transcendental growth through dealing with unfinished business from the past, and walking forcefully toward the challenges you instinctually knew would scare and fulfill you at the same time.
Neptune in 6th house
In what way were you extra intuitive? It was in regard to learning new skills and self-improvement in general. You had high standards about efficiency, but didn't always have clearly defined paths for getting organized. You became mesmerized when watching others excel in what you desired to learn. The healing arts held a special place in your heart, as did a devotional life. Diet and health became special interests in some lives. Your idealism inspired you to follow certain causes.
A test was learning how to select what was worth your sacrifice of time, energy and at times wealth. The boundary between common sense and wearing "strawberry fields" colored glasses was not usually very thick. Rolling up your sleeves to take on a difficult project came when feeling the inspiration of your beliefs. Your spirituality kept you mentally centered and strong. What was the biggest challenge? Without a doubt, perfection! It plagued you when trying to defy reasonable expectations. You were happier if not expecting the impossible. You were driven to escapism if not modifying your standards. Faith transformed your denial of reality into a more balanced expression. You searched for a purpose that helped you walk without guilt, and strengthened your resolve to accept life's ups and downs.
Pluto: Your Power, Self-mastery, Rebirth, Loss, Passion as a Couple
Pluto in Virgo
Empowering yourself through using analytical ability was a past lives tendency. Perfection drove you on to try to do great things. Being reasonable in your expectations was wise. Extreme worry was sometimes a downfall. Curbing this tendency did make you happier and allowed for greater productivity. Charisma was exhibited through working forcefully at whatever you made your life mission. Escaping into projects made you less nervous. There was a habit of putting your heart and soul into a cause.
There was a shadow. What was it? Criticism. You could spot if something was out of place in a second. You did at times overly pick apart yourself or others. When you got this one under control, good fortune was never far away. Self-mastery was discovered through deciphering the ways to work smarter rather than harder. You found rebirth or a sense of fulfillment when overcoming negative thought patterns, and seeing that altered perceptions were truly miracles.
Pluto in 8th house
How did you go about seeking personal empowerment? It was through knowing whom you could trust. This was a testy subject for you. Usually, you had only one true confidante in a lifetime. A renewed sense of purpose was discovered through achieving self-mastery. It was often a surprise for you to find you had untapped talent. The people you met awakened your creative power. Your survival skills instinctually became activated when you were a victim of betrayal. Forgiving others was difficult after they abused your trust. Your relationships did at times find you attracted to intense individuals that weren't exactly stabilizing. In any event, you often grew stronger after dealing with a crisis. A powerful self-examination manifested itself following emotional upheavals. Losing what you were attached to was quite painful. When you found a way to successfully grieve through the past, a new life awaited. A compulsive tendency to fear losing everything you owned got you to ask thought-provoking questions. A shadow frequently followed you into incarnations, an obsessive fixation on loss or death. You relaxed more into confident roles when you channeled this thought power into meaningful action.
How your Planets Interacted: Positive and Challenging
The more hard or intense aspects are the conjunction (0 degrees), square (90 degrees) and opposition (180 degrees). They required your best understanding in past lives. Planets that are part of an intense aspect you will notice often indicate lessons that must be learned, and follow us from one incarnation into another until we get them in balance. These higher voltage aspects don't mean the planets operated negatively, only that there was much more force behind them. "Soft" does not mean good and "intense" does not imply bad. It is often the more intense aspects that deepen our soul growth, that is, if we learn how to use their power wisely. If we don't it's like taking one step forward and three back.
It might be helpful to keep some keywords in mind for the aspects. The sextile represents Excitation and Eagerness. The planets in this aspect give clues as to how their energies worked in a stimulating way through you. The trine is a special Harmony. The two planets involved show you were confident of their interacting energies. The conjunction is where two planets are joined at the hip. There is a Fusion or powerful blending of these energies. The square can reveal where you encountered Friction. Pay special attention to these aspects in particular because they denote themes that are strong past patterns. Squares ask us to resolve their conflict by finding creative outlets. The opposition requires a Balancing act. It is similar to a seesaw. Gaining objective awareness about each planet is a key. Remember, it was usually the most intense aspects that stretched you the most in past lives.
Lunar Aspects in Your Chart as a Couple - How were you emotionally?
Moon trine Venus
An easy going demeanor made you likeable. Instinctively knowing how to get along with people, even those quite different than you came naturally. You had a stabilizing effect on many. It was the way you show you cared that deepened your love relationships. You did need to watch out for being too trusting.
Moon oppose Mars
You instinctively chose your battles, and it did become necessary to choose them well. A competitive drive from within sprung forward when you found your chosen path. You were attracted to individuals speaking their mind, though the ones that hurt your feelings didn't warm your heart. Your own impatience with those closest to you had to be watched. When you handled challenges in a direct manner, you got better results. Life usually asked you not to depend on others to the point you lost your way. It also requested that you not try to always feel obligated to be someone's defender. When you plundered what others owned you were met with great resistance. You found strength when listening to your inner clarity more than the intense commotion going on around you. Being needed made you feel important. When you didn't run away from those asking for your help, you found a bigger world to belong to.
Moon oppose Saturn
Pragmatic individuals you tended to trust. Long term commitments with lovers or friends were valued. Trust was essential. It did many times take you awhile to feel comfortable with someone. Though you really didn't like spending much time by yourself. You relied on your intuition to guide you. Conquering your fear is what freed you in all sorts of ways. Taking your talents out into the world came through encouragement and little successes. Your interactions with people ranged from great joy to extreme disappointment. The sorrow was often caused when either you or a partner became too demanding. When there was flexibility and mutual acceptance the connections flowed. Balancing your public and private lives was challenging. It took your best efforts and the cooperation of others to make this flow. You relied heavily on emotional support, but were not always the best in asking for it. You did like to feel needed.
Moon square Ascendant
You were an emotional force in the lives of those you loved, sometimes more than they wanted. Stormy moods made clear thinking a real challenge. You either cared too much or were accused of ignoring those closest to you. Being as changeable as the moon's phases in one day is what upset a few individuals. A restless urgency to go where you wouldn't miss out on growth-opportunities is what caused to move often. Logic wasn't necessarily your main tool when in a stressful conflict. Toning down your response time did avoid a few embarrassing situations. Then again, it was occasionally the people you leaned on that were unpredictable, lacking stability. When you escaped from unstable circumstances you felt more in control as well as rooted, and lighter in worry.
Mercury Aspects: Did you have good mental affinity?
Mercury conjunct Saturn
Serious thinking became a dominant force usually before you knew it. You were capable of long-term focus that enabled you to accomplish very difficult tasks. If you managed not to try to overly control situations they were more enjoyable. Business perceptions were very strong and accurate. If you were terribly disappointed over a failure or rejection, depression often resulted. Getting through this dilemma took patience and it didn't hurt if there were helpful allies. You always needed to be careful in demanding success according to a rigid plan. Flexibility was the best policy. Being your own person required you to break free from the rules established by others.
Mercury oppose Midheaven
Your communication skills were regularly utilized in your work. You had a way of sensing as to how to best serve the public. You functioned better when not being subjected to intense criticism. Your determination for success usually developed slowly, and gained strength as you found your footing. In leadership positions, you had a keen eye for detail. Self-confidence was a challenge. You weren't the easiest person to work with until you gained patience. The more successful you became, the more generosity you showed toward others. It was when you stayed mentally cool during a crisis that others liked you.
Venus and Mars: Attraction - Physical and Romantic, Aggression, Values, Energy - Good or Bad?
Venus oppose Uranus
People often perceived you as an interesting individualist. They either admired your freedom-thinking mind or feared it. Your romances were as exciting as unpredictable. You eventually found a need for stability as the roller coaster ride of love wore you down. Then again, when things grew too normal, you were rebelling. Inventive individuals fascinated you. Your friends and lovers usually had to be able to keep up with you mentally. Finding that delicate balance between calm and storm was the real challenge. You bored so easily when life was too predictable. But you could be a nervous wreck if it was always in question. You needed goals that matched what you needed for self-esteem. Your soul mates often shared your same sense of awe when it came to being experimental.
Mars trine Uranus
A propensity to sense the future goals that would keep you motivated was part of your nature. You sometimes needed encouragement before really believing you had talent. Your closest friends benefited from your fiery spark of enthusiasm. There was good fortune in often not needing to fight for freedom as life generously provided you with great latitude. Though it was important not to take this for granted.
Mars square Pluto
Danger intrigued you. Taking risks was a high. If you listened to the wrong advice you rushed into reckless actions. When you put this raw energy to wise use there was nothing you couldn't do. You were a passionate person needing big challenges in order to feel alive. Self-destructive actions had to be watched. Knowing ahead of time which actions wouldn't get you into trouble came with experience. Allowing loved ones get to know the real you was scary, but liberating.
Mars square Ascendant
Moving fast was how you lived. You pressured yourself into competing with others. Angry outbursts were commonplace. You did have a problem in overreacting to situations. The good news was when you needed to be feisty and warlike, the trigger was already pulled back and ready to fire at adversaries. You sometimes were your own worst enemy in being angry at yourself. When you had places to channel this very restless energy, you were more productive. Having plenty to do was a basic requirement in keeping you centered. Insight into your actions helped intercept negative impulses before they exploded. You were courageous in exploring uncharted territories.
Jupiter Aspects: Where was the luck and happiness in your charts?
Jupiter conjunct Neptune
You dreamed big! A tremendous idealism and imagination caused you to try the impossible. Inspiring others was your forte. You did easily become disillusioned with the imperfection of the world. Running away from your shadows is what you needed to watch. A spiritual presence usually tried to make its presence known to you. If you got lost in trying to be rich and famous, the mystical forces of the universe had to wait. You had a way of getting people to do what you wanted through persuasion and offering them deals they couldn't refuse. When you looked to a higher power, your experiences were powerful. Symbols spoke to and through you. There was the inner vision to see the future before it came. Knowing your limits was a key to happiness.
Jupiter conjunct Node
When you incarnated it was with enthusiastic purpose. More than one road definitely took you to Rome or wherever you were inspired to go! You had a vision that kept growing wider as you discovered your potential. Haphazardly following in the footsteps of those purposely leading you astray took away from your mission. When you grew lazy and too intoxicated by the good life, you needed moderation. When too negative, you reached for the heavens to show you how to think positively. A great faith did help you through the tough times. An adaptable nature brought you luck. The never- ending search for adventure made life exciting.
Jupiter trine Midheaven
You had a sense of humor, some thought you too much the prankster. An inspirational force you could be. Blind faith got you into trouble once in a while. The universe granted you good luck when you exercised sound judgment. You had a spiritual or religious bent that was a guiding light.
Saturn and Uranus: Were you responsible or rebellious as a couple?
Saturn oppose Midheaven
Being a leader either made you feel important, or burdened you with responsibility. Trusting your ability helped. Balancing dependency needs in relationships was vital to your happiness. Being leaned on heavily for support, and being a leaner happened about equally as often. There was a fragile ego when it came to failing. Rejection could be devastating. Accepting help was smart from those closest to you when life wasn't delivering what you expected. You found strength in acknowledging your mistakes. Acting responsibly was a demand you took to heart. Letting others take the lead in their areas of expertise added harmony.
Uranus square Neptune
An inner restlessness to pursue your dreams occurred throughout some incarnations. It wasn't easy to concentrate on the present unless you had clear vision. The mental and emotional sides of you were in conflict, especially when you experienced guilt. Integrating intense emotions and a strong intellect took patience. Exerting your independence required faith when there were people standing in your way. There were occasions when you too easily sacrificed your goals and ideals to please others. Balancing your intuition with a realistic assessment of what was truly possible was the big challenge.
Nodal Aspects: Your incarnations - Are you going to repeat the process?
Uranus square Node
Following your own whims about the future swept you up with great force. You didn't believe in looking back at the past. The hopes of tomorrow were your reality. Commitments were hard to keep as you quickly felt the pull of a new plan. It was growth-promoting when you offered to be there for those needing you. Instant karma resulted when you refused to learn from yesterday's errors in judgment. You had an inventive and rebellious streak. You could be difficult to understand, which was quite true when becoming too eccentric. Your ideas didn't fit conveniently in with those you loved. When compromising even a little it took the tension out of your relationships. When you gave up too much of your independence, you sensed something was horribly wrong. Finding that center between being reasonable and going after your personal choices took great objective discretion.
Neptune conjunct Node
You incarnated with a strong statement to make about your ideals. Looking for those paths that brought intuitive clarity was your main mission. In the way of this was getting sidetracked by people and causes that appealed to your blind faith. Learning how to distinguish what experiences promoted your growth from those that depleted it was a must. You were quite the dreamer and romantic. Searching for a soul mate and roles that best described you were heartfelt quests. You gave much to those you loved. Denial and escapism were temptations. Keeping these two tendencies in line made you a centered and grounded person. Your inspirational belief in others made them admire you.
Your Ascendant and How the World Saw the Two of You
Ascendant trine Node
There was ease in tuning into those paths that blended nicely with your need for self-discovery. You weren't one to impose your demands on others. Going with the flow and waiting for the right time to make a change was part of the plan. A key was remembering to walk through the door, once you found it was open.
Just as the Ascendant in the Passport section that began this report was described as a sign serving a special purpose, each of the other eleven houses has a sign that helps define its meaning. What follows is a trip through each of the other past lives houses or environments to give you a view of additional characteristics. First are listed the keywords for each house.
HOUSES areas of YOUR LIVES TOGETHER
2nd House: Comfort, values, money, ownership.
You displayed a tendency to have independent values. Freedom of choice was essential to your happiness. Your inventiveness gave you a source of pleasure. Tapping into progressive trends was rewarding. Freedom was highly valued. Stability didn't matter to you as much as the philosophy that variety was the spice of life. You saw change as inevitable, but preferred to alter your plans on your own terms. Stubbornness was another trait. You had definite opinions on what was worth putting time and money into. Conflict with others regarding decisions occurred due to having individual, if not eccentric ideas. Fighting against calmness did disrupt the normal flow of your life. People did get upset with your unpredictability. You made yourself and others less anxiety prone when you learned to gauge the appropriate time to rebel or make those last minute revisions.
3rd House: Perceptions, learning, communication, insight.
Sober thinking guided you. Moving spontaneously wasn't your first choice. Your brain synapses did beat to a pragmatic drum. People exhibiting clear logic made you feel more comfortable than the dreamers. Even an idealist with a solid plan could win your admiration. Negative thinking did interfere with your happiness. The lowest point resulting in depression. When you stayed reasonable in your demands of life it was less likely that you suffered for long. Adjusting to change was not easy. You needed to really be convinced that a revised plan was necessary. Although once you warmed up to a new situation you could get into the flow. Your commitment to a project was rock solid. Rushing you into decisions was a waste of time as it just made you resist. You communicated with a sense of organization. Controlling tendencies didn't make you a favorite of those closest to you. When you showed you could trust others, they responded with more warmth.
4th House: Home, security, nurturing, roots.
Roots you didn't always have. A youthful and adventurous nature guided you to seek stimulating locations. You inspired those around you to think more spontaneously. Being tempted by greener pastures made stability difficult. Sometimes you acted irresponsibly due to a fear of commitments. You didn't like having your options limited. Shyness in showing your talent occurred. Gaining confidence came through getting support from those who knew your ability. Taking a leap of faith conquered overcoming your stage fright or performance anxiety.
5th House: Self-expression, creativity, confidence, romance,
Spontaneous action was what made you feel alive You took chances to see how far you could push the limits. Overconfidence did put you in a few embarrassing situations. Risk taking was done to get you beyond boredom. Self-confidence came when you really believed in what you were doing. You didn't like waiting for life to offer you opportunities. In other words, you learned early how to make things happen. When you exaggerated your ability people did begin to doubt you. When you followed through on promises, others were much friendlier. It should be said you were sensitive about those closest to you showing their faith in you. You were someone that did defy the odds in taking on challenges that many would have passed on. Your success in reaching creative milestones was due to an intense drive to inspire others. You were at your best when helping people expand their horizons. When you maintained a glimpse of the big picture, you were happier and didn't lose your direction.
6th House: Learning skills, work environment, perfection, diet,
Developing clear strategies was how you liked to proceed. Illogical individuals irritated you. You sometimes entered love not too realistically and felt stuck in confining situations. You were happiest with partners treating you as an equal. Criticism angered you quicker than anything else did. Those trying to mold you into someone else alienated you. You sometimes were indecisive about which skills to pursue. You were happiest when settling into those roles that best suited you rather than trying to do what pleased others. A preference for a lifestyle without tight deadlines fit your needs. There were few disputes in life in your eyes that couldn't be resolved. You liked people to exhibit fairness. You were angered by irrational demands.
7th House: Relationships, marriage, partnerships, social
You were attracted to pragmatic partners. People with a clear sense of purpose were preferred. You did tend to be analytical about others. The sooner you realized that there were no perfect individuals in the world, the happier you became. When other people tried to make you into something you were not, this didn't exactly make you feel very good. Developing a sense of humor made life more flowing. You were hard to please at times, or attracted people with this same trait. Flexibility in relationships made for greater success. You did need to watch a tendency to be overly dedicated to undeserving types. When you did find the right partnerships, you could show an impeccable focus to make these relationships work.
8th House: Power, joint resources, rebirth, passion,
Joining forces with strong partners was a tendency. Maintaining your own personal power was a challenge. When you didn't try to live out your creativity through others you were happier. The wise use of authority made for fewer problems. Romantic relationships were at times fast and explosive. You did need to watch out for demanding too much attention. A tendency in knowing how to bounce back from tough challenges was shown. Rising out of the ashes of disaster or disappointments was one of your trademarks. You didn't like to lose. Being flexible proved wise. A positive mind-set brought you good fortune.
9th House: travel, learning, philosophy, knowledge, optimism.
Your expectations were sometimes too high of others, meaning they disappointed you. This was when your intuition was too far out in front of your reality. Yet when people respected your highest aspirations and beliefs, they quickly found a way back into your good graces. You needed to trust in your capabilities. You found strength through being determined to see the positives in spite of the negatives.
10th House: Professions, ambition, leadership, focus,
Your serious ambitions tended to not be so easily harnessed. Discipline took some work. A chance to exhibit your intellect was hard not to pursue. A tendency to perform multiple roles at once was part of your past history. Why? Perhaps a fear of boredom or simply to make ends meet. You found balance and meaning through a diversity of expressions. You took great pride in doing something well after you truly studied it. When a leader, you possessed a keen sense of the big picture. Though you didn't always want to be the boss as it took away from your private time. Your ideas were insightful and even caused controversy. You never liked to be forced into any one role. Keeping one foot in and one out of the norm, made you feel more secure. You weren't a great follower because your independent mind-set didn't fit into the plans of others. Your mental toughness took you far.
11th house: Goals, individuality, freedom, inventive,
You thought about the future as a regular ritual as much as a cat thinks about daily Sun bathing. It's not that you always hated the past or present, you just felt freer in the future. It was frustrating when your ideas were not finding acceptance in the here and now. You had an inventive and restless mind not always that easy to focus. Your sarcasm about society might have gotten you into trouble now and then. People liked your refreshing insights into situations, but didn't always enjoy the blunt way you spoke. You believed strongly in freedom and could be stubborn in getting your own way. You enjoyed shocking people out of their comfort zones. An unpredictable side didn't make settling down easy. When you did find a way to make peace with life, your mind ferociously sought outlets to let its mental ingenuity be a force to be reckoned with.
12th house: Idealism, intuition, escape, faith, beliefs.
Pursuing your dreams with enthusiasm colored past incarnations. Fighting for your ideals was an automatic response. You got into trouble by ignoring sound reality testing. Following your intuitive instincts led you to numerous adventures. You often fought to make your dreams come true. Surrendering too much of yourself to causes proved disappointing and limiting. You experienced less confusion when staying aware of the big picture. An unwillingness to rest or slow down sometimes didn't do much for your health. Retreats away from stressful conflicts recharged your mental and emotional batteries. Hiding your true needs from others caused confusion. Faith in your beliefs helped transcend tough times. You needed to exercise caution when looking for a soul mate. It's when you remained clear within yourself about whom you were, that relationships, and life in general, was more flowing.
Retrograde Planets in Your Past Lives Chart Together: Repeating Past Patterns - Where you may have to repeat, replace, and redo your actions in this lifetime
Planets in actuality never really move backward, but can appear to do so. This is referred to as retrograde motion, and as you will read has special past life meaning surrounding a particular planet's symbolism. The following are planets that were moving retrograde at your birth with a description as to how this played out for you in other incarnations.
It was a repeating pattern that you had a challenge in keeping your thoughts positive. Your analytical side was well developed more often than not. A tendency to instinctively rethink your decisions was a trait. Knowing when to stop trying to perfect a task was essential to your happiness. You became nervous if rushed into decisions. Instant recall of facts happened when you least expected it. There was a need to feel like you could control the pace of your mind. You weren't bothered by information overload, as long it was facts of your choosing, or preference. The challenge was to stay clear of becoming compulsively negative in your thinking. When you felt mentally at ease and clear, life seemed good.
It was a repeating pattern that you had unique goals, reserved just for you. When you didn't do this, life lacked meaning. When you solely served your own purposes this caused quite a ruffle in the feathers of those you loved and cared about. Finding the midstream worked the best regarding these two extremes of sacrifice and doing your own thing. Your ideas sent shock waves at times when individuals or collective bodies didn't like the message. You did sometimes tap into a collective trend before it became in vogue. It did make you nervous about how you might be judged. Many ideas were kept internalized until you were sure the coast was clear and safe enough to present the notions. Were you ever more outwardly disruptive? For sure! This usually occurred when you were so aroused by injustices or thinking restrictions imposed upon you. There was a need to perceive with fore thought, which fights were worth the struggle. Being different just to be different or starting conflicts with no purpose, were ways you took many steps in the wrong direction. Listening to cues from the universe on which directions promised accelerated growth was wise. Your vision of the future was as strong as the ability to remember what gave your imagination an electrifying sensation. Patience took effort!
It was a repeating pattern to know your way around Intensity Street. In some lives you were overpowering. In others, you didn't usurp enough power. Having a sense of empowerment was crucial to reaching self-mastery. Survival instincts you possessed. Being emotionally intense was a past pattern. Learning to communicate your feelings made you easier to understand. Self-honesty was liberating but it was a test to admit your faults. Defensiveness had to be conquered. You didn't believe in going halfway when exploring a subject. Compulsive lusts for riches and leadership sometimes brought out your worst manipulative traits. You were happier when feeling inwardly secure and having allies that you could trust. You had to beware of an urge to win at all costs. You found rebirth through not fearing your own shadows, and being big enough not to run from those you loved. You processed experiences long after they occurred, revisiting the past often, healed when able to embrace forgiveness.
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